Most of these otherwise outgoing women have no idea how to flirt with men, nor do they want to. Granted, it takes a different approach, but everyone likes to be complimented.
They consider it quite childish, bordering on classless. That means online you’ll never hear from him again, and offline he might ask you for lunch; but that’s all you’re going to get. When you see a man you’re attracted to, you want to be seen as a w-o-m-a-n! Men love to know that you consider them to be smart, capable, fascinating and funny.
Here are four ways to flirt with flair and class – whether online or off – so you can get that date, and the next: 1. Have you ever noticed that we use compliments to connect with other women? (Ahem: note the word “sincere.”) You can tell him he has nice eyes, and he’ll appreciate it.
In other words, if you make yourself too hard to get, this strategy could backfire.’ Flirting then, is the blend of demonstrating your affection but also leaving your date guessing about your feelings somewhat – they need to suspect you having feelings for them, without being sure.
Ultimately, flirting is a game and here’s how to play.
Tell him you agree with something he says; ask his opinion; let him suggest a book or restaurant; tell him you appreciate his jokes or that his business sounds interesting. I recommend that my clients ask and answer this question out loud: What do I like about him and what do I want him to know about me?
Flirting's a language - and just like with any other language, no one's born a fluent flirt.